Book review of UNNS- The Captivation

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Half Baked beans http://www.halfbakedbeans.in/blog/ gave me this wonderful opportunity to review this book, so here is the unbiased version of my review

UNNS-The captivation talks about the 7 stages of love. The meaning of the word UNNS gets unfolded gradually in the book captivating the readers. The characters in the book Atharva and Meher have strong personalities which add to the flavor of the story. This story isn’t just a ‘Harry met sally’ love story. The plot has it all, from romance to suspense and even a hint of action.

The story revolves around Atharva and Meher making choices which have a whole lot of consequences for them to deal with. What do you do when you have to take decisions in life? Do you consult your head or the heart? The choices we make decide who we are.

UNNS-the captivation is published by Inspire India. The book talks about destiny and fate. How a young couple passes all the stages of love and how they deal with it.

The story is gripping and the book is hence unputdownable. Atharva is the guy every girl dreams of, he is loyal, romantic and dependable. Meher on the other hand is not the conventional girl.

However  I would also like to add that the narration could have been enhanced and the story in the beginning was not picking up pace.

This book is the second novel written by the author Sapan Saxena who is a software engineer and an author by choice. His first book was Finders, Keepers.

Let me not give you the whole story here… Read it for yourself. Order it now from Amazon India. Just click on the link below

http://www.amazon.in/UNNS-Captivation-Sapan-Saxena/dp/9385783874

Hospitals and more…

I hate hospitals. I will unabashedly claim that I will stereotype the medical clan and shove them under one pile and hate them. However don’t get me wrong, I have friends and family who are Doctors, crushes who are budding doctors and I drool on Grey’s Anatomy, House Drama series which is based on the lives of a doctor and every waking scene of theirs in a hospital.

Monday morning, after being reluctant about it and opposing, my family pushed me into getting all my medical tests done. I had been stalling it in the hope that my parents will find the pump leaking or the walls getting cracked in the house. But they chose to concentrate on me which is rare. My father generally pays attention to me talk when I disclose my marks. Other than that he becomes strangely busy.
As I entered this holy grail of medical tests, I realized like all holy places, it was very crowded. People shoved me to get ahead of me. I had a few basic tests which needed to be done and for the Doctor to earn more money. I found that this Lab was not for humans. It was for Lab rats. After 10 minutes in that place, I found asking questions were frowned upon. Not just frowned they literally get cross. If the senior citizens tend to be in pain before their Ultra Sonography or in discomfort, empathy was something which the medical schools did not teach. Clearly it is an out of syllabus question. The basic amenities in the lab like the washrooms are not just up to the mark, you will realize what a luxury is having a clean washroom in a public place. Also out of the half a day spent there I learnt my lesson that as lab rats are made to perform certain activities without a protest, the human lab rats are expected the same.

 

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Love eh?

How do people understand if they have actually fallen in love with their carefully searched for partner. Is it love or is it getting used to the person?? Is it the day to day dealing with people… Their little reactions which you find it almost to be a part of your life, slowly you get used to their funny ways of sleeping, their reactions to their favorite food seems cute to you..I have heard couples saying that they are working on their marriage.. I always thought love was magical and it was easy. As easy as two hands perfectly fitting into each other and intertwining with each other.

Then I grew up…..

I realised Love didn’t mean mushy late night talk, promises about the future, unlimited text messages….. When the going gets tough, the tough gets going. Human relations are like machines which need to be maintained. What a paradox right? Relationships are hard work. Starting from friends, family to lovers… You need to work on every relation, every step.  Cause it takes only a second to hurt somebody by your words but a lifelong to build a strong bond. Love is definitely alive when I see a middle aged couple who have survived the realms of struggles and crisis of life but still at the end of the day find time to know about each others day after putting their children to sleep and hugging each other to sleep.

Arranged Marriages are scorned and looked down upon in the west. It is a scary thought to meet some stranger and decide in 20minutes if you are to spend the rest of your lives with him, if you are from a fairly modern family, you can take 20days. So does it mean in all arranged marriages it’s either love at first sight or you get used to the person who you are going to share the bed with for the rest of your whole life. Or is it that the couple fall in love with each other slowly by getting to know each other and rewinding the process by marrying first and then going out on dates and starting to fall for each other.

 

 

Earth Day

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In India, I did not find Earth Day to be very special. I was reminded about Earth Day by my morning newspaper, which thought they could do justice to earth day by putting a few leaves on the name of their newspaper. Was that it? Was that all about Earth day?

My new hymn, GYM

When I joined my Gym I saw fit people and these new and shiny equipment’s which involved weights and determination to try them out. When I looked closer at the people, I found people to be narcissist and staring at the mirror constantly to check on their invisible flab’s. They were appalled to see me being nonchalantly about my weight. He Gym trainer to some extent felt sorry for me and took it up as a task for himself to help me shrink, to my mother’s utmost horror.

As I started spending time in the Gym I realised that there was more to these people than just them working out and shouting in pain at the heavy dumbbells they kept lifting. After the Gym trainer started talking to me who was lie a black sheep to the gym with my weight, I realised the people who love spending time in the gym, well most of them have very low confidence level. They are never happy with their body and they keep harping on being not perfect enough. Call me a fraud for not being loyal to my gym and my fellow Gym mates, but the whole body shaming needs to be put to place from this place. Being healthy is definitely something we all strive for but not being fat or not being the like the hourglass model. Most people who go to the Gym are determined to lose weight to show others. Of course selfies make the job easier by showing off to the world their ‘I ran 30minutes on the treadmill body’ Selfies in the gyms are their version of telling the world, Boo Yeah… You were saying something?

I wish the world was simple, I wish life was simple. But then I realised it would never be this fun, would it?

Photo Blog- Ruins of an ancestral house…

Radhanagar is a village in Arambagh subdivision of Hooghly District of West Bengal, India. It is famous for the birthplace of Raja Ram Mohan Roy, the founder of Brahmo Samaj and he is also famous for the abolition of Sati.

These are the ruins where Goddess Durga was worshiped. This is a part of the ancestral house belonging to the  Zamindars called the Bose’s in the Radhanagar.

 

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Photowalk

 

My first ever Photo walk! Like a kid getting a balloon after a lot of pestering, just like the kid, I was wide eyed to attend my first Photo walk and get associated with a brand One Plus and getting photography tips from the Calcutta Cacophony team.

The walk was organised by the One Plus team. A bunch of enthusiastic photographers turned up at the event. The One plus team were fairly surprised at the turnout of the event because they have been organising this event in 6 other cities but never had they seen this big a turnout on a Sunday afternoon. Like the others, I was kicked to get started. We were however advised to drink plenty of water and keep our tummies happy as we were about to rough it out.
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We were diving in teams of 20. With an expert from the Calcutta Cacophony team mate to help us with the photography. We started with St.Pauls Cathedral, moved on to Victoria Memorial and then to the Maidan.
Like Paparazzi we went click click click… Only stopping to to catch our breath while catching  up with our group members while trotting. We were supposed to compose a story while framing a picture. Being the Story girl like my friends call me, that wasn’t very difficult to find a story even among the Victorian age monument, the green grass and under the blue sky.
I was surprised at how my Sunday afternoon passed in a jiffy and I enjoyed everymoment of it. It was truely a wonderful experience as I could not just learn from this session but interact with some of the best photographers in town.
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The next leg to this Photowalk was the competition. Yes, in a coutry which is home to a Billion, there will always be competition, be it competing for a better spot in the metro ride or competing for the better photograph. We uploaded our best shots on our Instagram page and the best part…. My picture got two reposts from Calcutta Cacophony https://www.instagram.com/calcuttacacophony/?hl=en  and One Plus instagram page https://forums.oneplus.net/threads/oneplus-photowalk-kolkata.437262/ but also I got appreciated by many people . An afternoon well spent indeed.

Shri N.J Yasaswy Commemoration Lecture 2015


On 29th October, IBS Kolkata observed the second death anniversary of its founder Shri N.J. Yasaswy. Mr. Yasaswy was an exceptionally brilliant person with a vision in his mind. He had a bright academic career by being a topper in his Andhra University, B.Com exams and a rank holder in Chartered Accountant.
The Director of IBS Kolkata Mr. Ajay Pathak started narrating to the audience about his first meeting with MR> Yasaswy. Then he described Mr.Yasaswy as a visionary who was much ahead of his times. With a small amount of capital he started higher education in In India only in the hope to spread knowledge. He wanted everybody to get the opportunity to be able to complete their Higher Education inspite of Financial shortcomings. Dr. Pathak also talked about how Mr.Yasaswy showed exemplary entrepreneurial spirit by daring to open Business schools in the North East which has not been tapped before.
Mr.Anik Paul who is currently the Bureu Chief of the Mint and he also works closely with the IFC Global Corporate Governance Forum and the International Centre for Journalist. He spoke about Corporate Governance and whistleblowers and how there are no strong laws by the Government in protecting the whistleblowers of our country.
The next lecturer was by Dr. Ananda Lal who started off his speech by aptly describing how the Business world is termed as the Harsh Industry and the Arts to be the softer one. While none are merged as everything to Indians are Black or White. He then went on to explain the finer meanings of Kama,Artha and Dharma holding the audience’s attention. Dr Lal was found to be wittily punning in the middle and giving the speech a few light moments. Dr. Lal moved on to telling us about how the Big Companies want to promote popular things because they will get more advertisers by doing so rather than promoting things which are less popular. His speech was crisp with lots of thought provoking issues.
The evening was followed by a dinner in the end.

 

 

Paradigm Shift in Advertisements in India

The history of Advertising can be traced back to the Egyptians. Egyptians used papyrus to make sales messages and wall posters. Advertising on papyrus was quite common in Ancient Greek and Ancient Rome. Wall or rock painting was in practice then and which is in fact still in use in parts of Asia, Africa and South America. In India the tradition of wall painting can be traced to 4000B.C
In China, advertising was started orally, as recorded in the Classic of Poetry of Bamboo flutes played to sell candy.
Thomas J. Barratt who in the 19th century worked for the Pears company created advertisements, with slogans, images and jingles. He understood the importance of Brand image of a company and was brilliant enough to understand to change the needs of the customers according to their tastes and preference. He is thus rightly called, the Father of modern advertising.
In India, advertisements like Lalitaji’s pearls of wisdom on which washing powder to be used, Karen Lunel dancing under a waterfall for the Liril ad, Give me Red, Everready batteries, the Vicco turmeric ads, the Hutch ad where the Pug keeps following around are all iconic ads in the ad world.

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Till the 20th century ads used to be focused on introducing the product, describing it and creating a need among the audience for the product. Then Marketers believed that to promote their brand and make their brand sell, they need to be different from their competitors. Many competitors got into the market so consumers started asking Why them? USP came into the picture, which the company’s started counting on it. The unique selling proposition must be one the company makes which the competitor does not offer and cater to the needs of the customers. New and potential customers must be fascinated by this product’s USP for this product to sell and make better profits.
Advertising Industry has seen a sea change in terms of its advertisements and the mindset.
According to the Ad Man David Ogilvy,
“ The best ideas come as jokes. Make your thinking as funny as possible.”
As exposure grew, Indian Advertising had the courage to change from the ‘hyper-ritualisation’ of gender stereotypes (a term coined by Erving Geoffman in ‘Gender Advertisement’), grow and show stories which were never shown before. Women were no longer dressed in Saris, trying to impress their mother-in-law. Instead the new wife is shown telling her husband that she wants to work after marriage.
Reputed Brands like Titan, Fastrack and Tata Tea talk about social issues like Second Marriage, Coming out of the closet( Homosexuality) and the importance of voting. The Advertisements of these brands no more concentrate on being the brand name on the top of the mind of the audience, instead marketers now engage audience through stories about social issues and building up an image and reputation of their brand which proves that they are forward thinking and support causes which do good to the society.
“You now have to decide what ‘image’ you want for your brand. Image means personality. Products, like people, have personalities, and they can make or break them in the market place.”
David Ogilvy

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The Advertising world has thus evolved a lot but still has a long way to go…… It makes us think about the journey of Advertisements and the ways it is now trying to help the society by doing their bit of spreading awareness. The Companies are doing their CSR( Corporate Social Responsibility) by talking about taboo issues in their advertisements so that the society becomes conscious and does their bit.
As Bill Bernbach the advertising pioneer and founder of DDB rightly said-
Today’s smartest advertising style is tomorrow’s corn.